france lit a candle

Tuesday, October 13, 2020

to Mary my dear friend of Cape May

nahdee.darbey@bp.com lit a candle

Monday, September 28, 2020

Brian, I am so sorry for the loss of your wife and I am keeping you and your family in my prayers.

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Tuesday, September 8, 2020

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Friday, September 4, 2020

Scott Palagyi posted a condolence

Tuesday, September 1, 2020

Brian - continued thoughts with you and your family as you navigate these difficult times. We are here for you and passing as many positive vibes your way as possible.

Mary Roscoe lit a candle

Tuesday, September 1, 2020

I so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Adrian Flores lit a candle

Tuesday, September 1, 2020

Dear Brian, I'm very sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your family. Sincerely, Adrian

Rob Meyers posted a condolence

Tuesday, September 1, 2020

I am so sorry for your loss. May the memory of your wife / mother / friend bring you comfort as you grieve.

Gloria Brown lit a candle

Monday, August 31, 2020

Gloria Brown Posted Aug 31, 2020 at 9:26 PM

My heartfelt sympathies to the family.

Kathryn lit a candle

Monday, August 31, 2020

Brian, my deepest condolences to your family for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your children. -Kathryn Tessaro

Mairin Heron lit a candle

Monday, August 31, 2020

Deepest sympathy to Brian, Erin & Conor on the death of Mary. You are all in our thoughts & prayers that God will give you strength at this difficult time. Solas na bhflaitheas uirthi (May the light of heaven be on her). Máirín & Seamus Heron & family, Drumshanbo, Ireland.

Julie Wolfe lit a candle

Saturday, August 29, 2020

Sending my warmest condolences to the entire family. I am friends with Brian through tennis, so didn't know Mary personally, but knowing Brian, I am sure she was a gift to the world. My thoughts are with you and sending strength during this difficult time.

Nick Bahou lit a candle

Saturday, August 29, 2020

I did Yoga with Mary at the Mountain Lakes YMCA. She was always had a beautiful smile as well as a positive outlook on life. She was kind and always willing to help others. I will miss her kindness to others and wish that the family has wonderful memories of Mary to last them a lifetime. With Deepest Sympathies, Nick Bahou

Deirdre Peters posted a symbolic gesture

Friday, August 28, 2020

We are all so very sorry to hear about Mary’s passing. May God grace his strength on her family at this time. I can remember seeing Mary at Aunt Anns house on the many Thanksgivings spent in Douglaston Queens, NY. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May she Rest in peace. Deirdre Mooney Peters & Maureen Mooney

Joe Hillyer lit a candle

Friday, August 28, 2020

Brian - my most heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

elaine donegan posted a condolence

Thursday, August 27, 2020

Dear Shortall family: I did not know Mary, but her picture shows me of a radiant soul who loved and was very loved. May she sleep peacefully. God bless you all. Sincerely, Elaine Donegan

James Dugan posted a condolence

Thursday, August 27, 2020

I cannot even begin to understand what you are going through at extremely difficult and sorrowful time. I can only pray that your family will get through this time with the peace and love that comes from the knowledge of God's love. Jim Dugan

Maria Gray lit a candle

Thursday, August 27, 2020

I am so very sorry for your loss. Mary precepted me as a new nurse on 4AB at Overlook in 1989. She was patient and caring; the staff and patients adored her. She was such a role model to me- so beautiful inside and out. I will hold your family in my prayers... May the road rise up to meet you, may the wind be always at your back... And until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of His hand. God Bless Mary. Maria O'Neill Gray Chester, NJ

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Thursday, August 27, 2020

Mary was a very good friend to me when the Hallys moved to Basking Ridge. She was kind, supportive, and we had a lot of fun together too. I am heartbroken to hear of her passing. My family has been blessed with years of friendship with the Hally family, and I’ll be praying for the Hallys and Shortalls, that God wraps His loving arms around you all and eases your grief. Hearing this awful news has put me right back in 1983 - here’s a photo I dug up of Mary and me at our high school graduation. I’ll always be grateful for the time we shared, and for what a good friend she was to me when I needed one

Howard & Patty Teitelbaum posted a condolence

Wednesday, August 26, 2020

We could not have had a more wonderful next-door neighbor for the past 26 years. Mary always greeted us, and the world, with a smile. We recall conversations about Cape May and other places for which we had a shared affection. She gave tirelessly of herself in helping those less fortunate. Our hearts are with her family.

Stephen Hopkins lit a candle

Wednesday, August 26, 2020

Allan, Kate and William Tsai planted a tree in memory of Mary-Alice Shortall

Wednesday, August 26, 2020

Dearest sympathies from my heart to yours. Mary's smile and kindness will remain in our hearts forever.

Adriane, Michael, Jenna and Juliana Eoga uploaded photo(s)

Wednesday, August 26, 2020

We’re blessed to have known Mary as our next door neighbor and friend for over 25 years. Mary brought such joy to our neighborhood, our church, our community and to everyone who had the honor of knowing her. We have so many fond memories of raising our kids together at OLMC School, the fundraisers, events, lunch duty, carnivals, craft shows and countless hours of volunteering. There was never a time that Mary didn’t offer help when needed. She inspired me in being a woman of faith, devoted to Our Blessed Mother and a role model friend, wife, sister, mom and daughter. Whenever I looked out my sunroom or kitchen window, I’d see Mary. She was serving food on her deck, tending to her garden, getting ready to exercise or hosting guests. In 2018, shortly after Jenna committed to Seton Hall University, Mary (a proud SHU graduate) gave Jenna her SHU watch. It’s one of the treasured memories that our family will hold onto forever. We’re praying for you Brian, Erin and Connor. Be assured that we will be here for you in the days, weeks, months and years ahead. Our most heartfelt condolences, Adriane, Michael, Jenna and Juliana

Vinnie Terrone posted a symbolic gesture

Wednesday, August 26, 2020

Mary and her family were extremely helpful and supporting during our time of need. Beautiful person and privilege to know her. She will be truly be missed. Memory of her will always be with us. I want to pass on my most heartfelt condolences to the family. If there is anything we can do always reach out to us. Vinnie, Stephanie, Katie, Jamie, Lucas

Jane herron posted a condolence

Wednesday, August 26, 2020

Dear deacon Luke and Maureen I am so sorry for the loss of Mary. Words fall short in expressing my sorrow. I hope and pray in these days of darkness you will see the shadow of the resurrection Though it seems unimaginable at times Gods eternal embrace around you. Mary is beautiful even as she transcends this earthy plain. Please know we are thinking of you and praying for all of your family. inniu bím ag gol ( today I weep ). Your St James family is at your side Love and peace Jane and Dan Herron

Scott posted a condolence

Wednesday, August 26, 2020

A great memory I have of Mary, represents her kindness in so many ways. She always had a table at the OLMC craft shows, full of nice things, however her personally made Jewelry was really nice. I was walking thru the craft show with my daughters looking for a gift for their Mom. Mary offered to have the girls, over to her house and make a personal piece. I remember walking into her basement and seeing a DIY, Jewelry dispensary, hobby room, that was stocked with all sorts of creative items. I left the girls came back latter to pick them up and a master piece was created. It was a really nice gesture that made a special moment and gift. Nice is Nice and thats what Mary was.......... Yours Truly Scott Schechter

Patricia Simmons lit a candle

Wednesday, August 26, 2020

My heartfelt condolences go out to you, and, may you find comfort in memories and strength in each other's love.

Jerry, Denise, Erika, Brittney & Tyler posted a condolence

Wednesday, August 26, 2020

Brian, Erin and Connor we mourn with you with the loss of your wife, mom and our dear friend. Mary (while a little too healthy and fit for me!) was a special person to our family, our neighborhood, our town and frankly anyone who had the opportunity to meet her or know her. While we will suffer earthly pain and have temporal challenges, we all must have HOPE knowing that we can be made perfect in God's eyes - not by anything that we have done - through the GRACE of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ! We will ALWAYS be here for you and there is NO ASK too BIG. We will miss Mary dearly but try to have solace knowing Clancy has her dog walker with her in Heaven. Love the Ruud's.

Chuck and MJ posted a condolence

Tuesday, August 25, 2020

Mary and Brian were the first to welcome us to the neighborhood. We became close friends during the 24+ years we shared a cul de sac. Always a bright smile and complimentary words. We watched our children grow in a rewarding neighborhood kinda like the bar Cheers. She is already missed by all who came in contact with her. Prayers for her family, Brian, Erin and Connor. R.I.P. sweet neighbor.

Debbie Migliore posted a condolence

Tuesday, August 25, 2020

Mary was the true meaning of a friend and someone you could count on. Her smile was infectious. I worked with Mary for many years and will miss her so much. Brian, Erin and Connor, I am so sorry for your loss and hope that God will help you through this time and always. Look to the stars and you’ll always feel her smiling down on you. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Mary, May you rest in eternal peace and thank you for helping our daughters become friends.

Barbara Taylor posted a condolence

Tuesday, August 25, 2020

I have such a vivid memory of meeting Mary at a party on one of her early dates with Brian - probably in the early 90's. A beautiful soul inside and out, we all loved her immediately. I was so happy to reconnect some years later at the Y, sharing many spin and yoga classes, and friendship. Mary was a beautiful angel and true friend. Her loss is immeasurable but I wish peace and love to my friend in heaven and love and sincere condolences to her family.

Lorrie Schack posted a condolence

Tuesday, August 25, 2020

Condolences to Mary's family. Mary was part of our Hawaii Traveling Nurse's Family. She will be missed so much. A final "Aloha" Mary. May you rest in peace. Beth, Brenda, Chrissy, Kim, Lori, and Lorrie.

Pamela Plumstead posted a condolence

Tuesday, August 25, 2020

I worked with Mary way back in the80’s at MMH. Gracious, gentle soul, beautiful...inside & out; in every way, infectious laugh and always with those bright Irish smiling eyes! Simply heartbreaking that family, friends and those of us who were touched by having known Mary will no longer share in friendship. My deepest condolences to all. Eternal peace...Heaven received a special angel! My deepest sympathy to you and yours Brian. With deepest reverence, Pam & Ron Plumstead.

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Tuesday, August 25, 2020

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